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Thursday, December 20, 2007

成就在奉獻


文:祥柯

世間上就有這么一些人,總愛在別人的面前擺出自己高高在上的架子,讓別人覺得他是個高高在上,有身分的人。和這種自以為了不起的人談話、做事,乃至在他身邊擦過,呼吸頓時覺得困難許多。

在每日報章上,常刊登一些榮獲勛銜者、考生在考試中考獲佳績、議員在某個活動上訓話、團體理事干部在活動上亮相等等。有的人因為有機會在報章上亮相,及獲得特別注目的讚揚,從此變得自以為是,故意和其他人划清界線,擺起架子,要求別人服從與順從。若對他稍有不敬,就會責罵他人,做錯了也不肯道歉,甚至因此而打官司。

能出生在富有家庭,成了高官顯要的富家子,其實沒啥了不起,還是要受教育才能成才;能考獲全科A,也沒什么了不起,因為除此之外,未必全部都高人一等;能被賜封,也沒什么了不起,有勛銜的人滿街都是;能成為議員,更沒什么了不起,若人民不選他,他也無法如愿;要成為10大青年、10大企業家、10大優秀生,若無人看好,即使再怎么努力、有成就,也無法得到此獎項。

能成為領導人,諸如班長、組長、董事長、秘書長、議員、市長、村長等,一樣也沒什么了不起。若不懂得管理人事,處理事務,光用口說和命令,一樣無法讓人服從與尊敬。此外,能成為領導人的,未必是全能的人,一樣有許多弱點與不足,需要學習各方面的技能與能力,才能做出成就,因此更沒什么了不起。

對于這些顯要與揚名立萬者,有些人會特別羡慕及巴結他們,但自己總是顯得沒多少信心。成名,主要是運氣好及人緣好,才能一路順風。換句話來說,這些有名堂的人,未必比一般人有更高的能力與智慧,也不比一般人更有成就,他們也一樣是凡夫俗子而已。

天生我材必有用,為別人打工的人若做得好,會比有名堂的顯來得更有成就及有用,比高層更有能力。做領導的把人事、事務管理得圓滿,讓下屬皆大歡喜,不擺架子,自然會贏得更多讚揚與尊敬。因此,沒有什么好羡慕這些有名堂的人,若沒有小人物默默幫助他們,他們也無法成名。

有機會成為名人、高官顯要、高職及特優生者,若沒有大眾提供的物質及思維,就無法如愿。因此,沒有什么了不起的!


Tuesday, September 18, 2007

騎士撞入溝市會主席救人

芙蓉18日訊)芙蓉市議會主席阿都哈林,勇救車禍傷者!

一名華裔騎士今早不知何故失控撞入積滿污泥的排水溝,相信是頭部撞及溝壁而昏倒,途經的芙蓉市議會主席見狀,馬上聯同公眾將傷者救起,並且不畏骯髒的使用本身官車,把傷者送入芙蓉端姑惹化醫院施救。

眾人準備把傷者抬進官車時,附近一名商家立刻拿來大塑袋準備鋪在車座內,避免身體沾滿血跡及污泥的傷者弄污車座。

不過,阿都哈林馬上說:?#19981;要緊,車弄髒了可以清洗,重要的是傷者沒事。?

然后,他安慰躺在車后座的傷者:?#20320;不用怕,我現在就送你到醫院治療。?

抄下傷者資料

接著,他打開車窗讓空氣流通,並由司機開車,陪同傷者到醫院接受治療,而且還細心抄下傷者的資料及地址,才返回辦事處繼續工作。

這宗車禍于今早近11時許在沉香路發生,即《中國報》芙蓉辦事處前面,傷者為鐘阿九(譯音,約55歲),來自敦依斯邁醫生路組屋,他在醫院治療后,傷勢已無礙

阿都哈林過后受詢時說,他今早是到沉香路巡視,當轎車駛近中華魚翅酒樓時,見到一輛摩哆不知何故撞入路旁的溝渠。

?#30001;于溝渠內有水,擔心傷者會溺斃,我連忙要求公眾合力將傷者抬起,然后抬入我車內送他到醫院。?

他說,當時傷者已昏迷,臉部及手部受傷流血,而且一直發抖,不過半途已清醒過來,而他也將傷者的手機及錢包交給傷者。

他說,抵達醫院時,醫院職員的效率也很快,馬上抬來擔架把傷者抬入醫院內施救。

曾兩度載孕婦入院
阿都哈林有顆好心

騎士不知何故,撞入積滿污泥的路旁溝渠內。
芙蓉市議會主席阿都哈林有一顆熱誠的助人之心,除了今早幫助一名受傷的摩哆騎士外,原來他也曾兩度載送孕婦入院,其中一名孕婦更因為等不及,在其轎車內分娩。

他今早載送受傷的摩哆騎士入院后,在辦事處接受本報訪問時,說出他兩次義助孕婦的經過。

?#22823;概是在1985年,那時我還在森州工程局擔任工程師,有一天我在親友家住宿時,在午夜12時許,親友懷孕的太太突然作動。?

?#25105;立刻開車將她送往醫院,其丈夫則在旁陪伴,但是我們從武吉則當的住家開車出發不到5分鐘,孕婦已在車內分娩,嬰孩在我車內出世。?

他說,當時他駕的轎車是本田雅廓,嬰兒出世后,車座沾滿血跡。

?#21478;一次也是在深夜時分,鄰居的太太要分娩,雖然沒要求幫忙,但我見他們竟然要騎摩哆到醫院生產,太危險了,所以我主動載鄰居到醫院,到了醫院后,鄰居順利誕下孩子。?

他說,一個人生活在這個世界上,就是你幫我,我幫你,而且助人也不應有種族之分,能幫到人就是一種快樂。

他說,像今早,他幫助一名撞入溝渠內的摩哆騎士,雖然騎士身上沾有鮮血及污泥,抬上車會弄污車座,但這不要緊,因為車座骯髒了可以清洗,最重要的是能幫助人,救到一條人命。

 


Monday, May 07, 2007

學校沒有教的東西

 

朋友傳來比爾蓋茨在一高中的演講。演講中他提到校為了看起來很?#27491;派?#65288;politically correct),教導的一些處事方針都不實際,因此培養出來的學生,並不知道真正的社會現實,而在真實的世界里,遭受失敗。

他列出了11條例,認為這是學校準備學生進入社會的金科玉律。

第一︰人生是不公平的,習慣就好。

第二︰這世界是不照顧你的自尊,在維護你的自尊之前,你必須做出表現。

第三︰你不可能一出校門就可以獲得6萬年薪,或成為有輛車子的副總裁。你必須去爭取。

第四︰如果你認為你的老師是很難應付的,等你有了上司或老闆後,你就知道滋味。

第五︰到快餐店去煎牛肉餅並不委屈,你的爺爺奶奶們對煎牛肉餅有另一種說法︰那是機會。

第六;如果你把事情搞砸,不是你父母的錯。不要埋怨發牢騷,從錯誤中去學習。

第七︰在你出世之前,你的父母並不像現在那麼沒有樂趣。他們要付你的費用,要幫你洗衣,所以在去援救天然雨林之前,先把你的衣櫥整理好。

第八︰學校裡可能不再分優勝者或落後者,但是現實生活不是如此。在美國一些學校,廢除了等級,讓學生不斷嘗試以便及格。但在現實生活中這完全是不可能的。

第九︰現實生活並沒有像在學校有不同的學段,你沒有夏日假期。沒有幾個僱主會有興趣讓你有時間反省,你用自己的時間吧。

第十︰電視劇並不真實,真實生活裡大家都要離開咖啡座去幹活。

第十一︰對於卑微的人必要好好相待,很可能有一天你會替他打工。

我們在學校,老師有教我們這些嗎?

我記得有一個當老師的朋友告訴我,有一次她讓一名小女生當班長兩星期後,覺得小女生不適合就換人,結果家長前來興師問罪,認為老師如此做法不公平,傷害了小女生的自尊,要老師恢復小女生當班長。

我的朋友如果當時看了比爾蓋茨的第一和第二條金科玉律,應該會告訴這家長,世界首富認為世界是不公平的,我們必須接受;沒有表現不用談自尊。

學校是準備孩子將來踏入社會的基地。讓小朋友生活在黑白分明的童話故事裡,是美麗浪漫的。但小朋友一直都留在童話世界裡是不會長大的。長大的孩子必須認識現實社會與學校不同的一面。

新加坡的學校,教導學生最現實的一招就是必須考出好成績,進入好的學校,最好能夠拿到獎學金,就能確保今後生活無憂無慮。

一紙文憑,科科A級,就優人一等嗎?現實不是如此,很多人出現了心理不平衡。所以現代人流行看心理醫生,因為學校教的與現實生活不一樣。

看來學校應該把比爾蓋茨的11條金科玉律,列入高中生的必考科目。 (星洲日報/情在人間‧作者:林鳳英‧2007.05.06)(作者言論不代表星洲日報立場)


Saturday, April 28, 2007

LMS AGM 2007 President speech

 

On behalf of the society, I would like to extend our sincerest appreciation and thanks to Advisor, past president of LMS Mr Kelvin Gee, for his presence. He has proven to be a steady hand in guiding the society. LMS would like to assure him of our unshakable confidence and trust in his advisory role.

 

I would also like to welcome honourable guests, all delegates and members of LMS to attend this important event. The presence of the past presidents, delegates from respective neighbouring societies has given us encouragement and motivation as well as further strengthened the spirit of LMS in meeting this time round.

 

The purpose of AGM is to:

 

  1. Present the society achievements to the members. This should include a summation of the year activities and finances from the committee members
  2. Give members an opportunity to question the committee and discuss how they see the society developing
  3. Elect new committee members

 

In the beginning of the term, we have registered LMS to the Malaysian Student Department, UK Executive Council of Malaysian student.

 

We also took the initiative to establish firm relationship with other Malaysian-societies in Liverpool, which are Malaysia-Singapore Association, Malays Speaking Circle, and Kelab UMNO Liverpool. We sent email to the respective president and secretary for all the appropriate events that we organised over the year. We also sent greeting of Hari Raya, UMNO 60th Anniversaries to all Malays community and KUL members. In return, we also received Chinese New Year Greeting from KUL President, Encik Yazid.

 

Internally, we decided to extend our committee board for better society development by forming a supporting committee through president appointment. It is such an honour for us to have 3 extra intelligences joining our committee board. They are photographer, Mr Sze Jeeu Teck, Event Coordinator, Mr Tan Cher Han, and Academic Representative, Mr Henry Chieng.

 

Now I would like to stop my speech here to allow my fabulous committee members to present their hard work. Thank you. 

 

 

 

 

Conclusion

In conclusion, during this year, there has been a major focus on the curriculum, in particular, the academic aspect of students. Hence we organised few academically related events to assist students for their future career. I would like to express my apologies to the engineering student for not being able to arrange engineering career talk due to our time constraint. I am sure my successor will implement this promise, this will not get improved with time.

 

We had a Malaysian Night meeting few days ago, I received an enquiry from the committee, and they were asking me why not many LMS members involved in the Malaysian Night. This is a very interesting question. Hence I did some research and look into this question properly. In fact, we have substantial amount of members participated this grand annual event. From the paid member list we have in hand. We have an estimation of 18 members who participated in this event. So I am not too sure why. As far as my understanding concern, I think the Malaysian Night Committee is not referring to LMS, but to certain group of members in the LMS. As a result, I would like to make a clarification statement right here. We LMS are actively involving in the LMS not only in the financial aspect but also the manpower contribution. However, I do not deny that LMN was indeed not receiving much support from the Chinese Malaysian in terms of casting. I think this is the leading factor for the LMS committee to rise up the question. This is due to the false perception from the people, which is LMS equal to Chinese Malaysian Society. This is absolutely not true; we are not uni-race society. I would like to take this opportunity to encourage all the Malaysian to have more interaction between each other, join the working committee board if we need you. Since we are not the dominant ethnicity in the country, we should take pro-active action to abolish social diversity and promote the beauty of multi-cultural country.

 

 

It is not easy for the leadership to manage a multi-cultural society like us, as every community has its own wishes and aspirations. However, we have done what we could do to meet the majority needs. LMS has always emphasized on the importance of social interaction.  My final regret is that I was not able to generate a stronger bond among the LMS and other Malaysian related societies. Unless we take the decisive action,

 

We haven been perfect, mistakes have been made and imperfections continue, like in any organisation, but we never point to anybody for responsibilities, instead, we critically evaluate the mistake and make it for future guidance.

 

 

Retirement

Ie been thinking about this day for a long time, but with mixed emotions, on the one hand I didn want it to get here. I didn want my student life to end. I enjoyed being a committee member. I enjoyed meeting new people and seeing different things. But on the other hand, I couldn wait for it to be over. I want to spend more time with myself, spend more time to be myself. I dun want to worry anymore about what will happen in the society. Well the day is here; my time has come, so I must move on, before I go I would like to thank a few people.

 

To Danial, thanks a million, without you, my time in society would have been a lot harder. You gave me a place for me to talk to and keep my sanity. Words cannot express how much I appreciate what you have done for me. You and some of your friends are indeed my very best Malay friends that I ever had. Thanks for always giving a firm hand shake and warm hug. I am sure our friendship will last forever.

 

My next order is to thank Gaik Min, my secretary. Thanks for her unflagging supports. Without her I would not be able to chair any meeting. And we don even have this room for our AGM. Thank you so much.

 

Pei Gee, another breakthrough was her skill, contacts, and hard work that finally landed us significant grants that allow us to run our activities. Under her talented financial management, our society has achieved strong financial status! With her, I will not need to worry anything about the money. Speaking in a more direct way, I would not need to worry collecting tickets price or membership fees from the members, because, I am sure they will pay it happily!

 

Henry, oh my lovely brother, he has been always around, ready to offer help to me. I have no single doubt on his ability to take charge in any events. I really enjoyed myself in the Chinese New Year casting. I would also like to thank you for your expertise and advices to all the society affairs. Furthermore, thanks for arranging a nice and beautiful course buddy to me, I really appreciate it.

 

Adeline and Adi, thank you, thank you so much for your work in organising most of the event in LMS, Halloween night is one of the successes you have created! I am sure next year you can be a role model for the coming Halloween night committee.

 

Mostyn, without you, I am definitely going to be lost in Nottingham University, could not find my way back to Liverpool!  Million thanks to your time and your efforts becoming the MC today too! Your calm, steady and charming characters are always be my role models. I wish to be a girl.

 

Edward, what else I can say to you? You are just rock. The time I spent with you on society work through MSN is uncountable! Thanks for not turning me away; I do recognise I gave you too much work to do in a short period of time. I am really sorry for this, but what amazed me is, at the end of the day, he still manages to complete everything for me. If times allow me to be young again, I would love to work with you again my dear.

 

Cher Han, he is the one who always turn up on committee meeting and gave me very distinctive opinions on every aspect of the society. Thank you so much for his presence and playing an irreplaceable supportive role in all events

 

Jeeu Teck, my housemate, my political mate! I really enjoyed the time sharing my view with you, and youe inspired me a lot to be a better person. Thank you!

 

Being a President, this has dominated my time in university. I will remember the most are the challenging times, those that challenged my skill in communicating people, those that challenged my management in time, and those that challenged myslef as a growing human being. But even more, I will remember those with whom I had the honour of sharing those challenges. Most of you are here today.

 

I learnt to accept all people as human beings and embrace their differences. Prejudice was not tolerated in our society. I learned how cruel making fun of others is and that is a ugly way for people to get attention.

 

 

I have learned a lot along the way from my peers, some of the best pearls of wisdom are the most simple and many came from some of you here today:

 

Don forget to forgive

Bad news does not get better with time

If you are not having fun, you are not doing it right

Don forget to say hank You?/SPAN>

 

Everyone of you in this audience has contributed to who I am today. Because of you, I have achieved much more in life that I ever had a right to expect, and become much richer in spirit

 

 

I would like to thank you again for your support, words of encouragement and trust in me to lead the society. I am also looking forward to witness the birth of my successor later.

I am confident that his reform minded administration will take us into a new chapter of excellence and greater successes.

 

In closing, I would like to end with few words, if anyone asks me when the most wonderful time was in my university life, I can respond that with a good deal of pride and satisfaction, when I was a President of Malaysian Society. Thank you

 

 

president

leo khoo


Tuesday, April 17, 2007



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